You know that feeling when you’re scrolling through Instagram at 9 PM, seeing other couples on fancy dates, and you’re sitting there in your old t-shirt, wondering where all the romance went? Yeah, I’ve been there too. After ten years of being a lawyer and one year of marriage, I’ve…
You know that moment when your whole world shifts and nothing feels solid anymore? That’s exactly where my friend found herself last month when she discovered her husband’s affair through a text message that popped up on his phone while he was in the shower. She called me at 2…
You know that sinking feeling when you’re pouring your heart into someone who seems to be looking right through you? I’ve been there, sitting across from my husband during our early dating days, wondering if I was reading the signs all wrong. As a relationship expert who’s spent the last…
You know that feeling when your husband brings you your favorite cup of tea without being asked, exactly the way you like it? Or when he remembers you mentioned feeling cold at night and quietly adjusts the air conditioning before bed? These moments might seem insignificant compared to Valentine’s Day…
I was sitting in my favorite corner of a quiet coffee shop last weekend, wholly absorbed in a worn copy of Maya Angelou’s poetry while everyone around me was frantically typing on their laptops or scrolling through their phones. The barista, probably no older than 22, looked at me with…
Being a public figure in my own little community, it was pretty obvious when I was struggling in my relationship. So, when we got back together, with all that juiciness and passion, some ladies in my community were all over me, asking what I did to rekindle love and passion…
Because life is filled with never ending drama does not mean your own life should be a circus in itself. As a result of the hullabaloo and chaos everywhere, you’d meet different species of women and how they coordinate their affairs. One can be a total drama queen while the…
The enormous number of distractions we face each day keeps us all busy without productivity, and exhaustion has reduced our days or lives to the rate of WTF/minute. If you ever feel like you’re racing against the clock, trying to squeeze every last drop of productivity out of your day,…
Receiving compliments can be a wonderful experience. Before now, I would say, “Who does not like a good compliment?” But over time, I’ve come to discover that some people do not like (I’m not sure ‘like’ is the correct word to use. Let’s say ‘appreciate’) a good compliment. You compliment…
Marriage is a beautiful union built on love, respect, and mutual attraction. But let’s face it, sometimes, over the years, the sparkle can fade a bit, and like hot coffee, things will definitely get cold. No one likes to think about it, but certain habits and behaviors can make a…
